**Warning: this text includes the technical details of childbirth.**
So, I went to my doctor's appointment last Tuesday. BP was still higher than normal. My doctor talked me into being induced on that coming Thursday. Nick was excited and I had mixed feelings, but I knew that it would probably be for the better.
Thursday we left the girls with Cynthia (thanks, Cyn!) and we checked in around 10. I received antibiotics (tested positive for GBS). My doctor came in and checked me (2.5 cm and 50% effaced) and broke my water. I was started on pitocin a short time later. I had decided going in that I would go without an epidural for as long as I could stand it, and I hoped that I'd be able to go all the way. So, I tried to relax as the contractions got started. I read for a bit and later put on a movie. Meanwhile, Nick was working on his laptop. The pitocin was turned up all the way, and contractions were getting strong and really hurting my back. The nurse found me a portable monitor and I was able to walk around for a bit, which REALLY helped with my back. It was nice while it lasted. Unfortunately, the baby wasn't doing too well with contractions and his heartrate would drop. I had to get back in bad and on oxygen. Then I was taken off the pitocin and monitors were put in my uterus and on the baby. The anesthesiologist came in and gave me my last chance for an epidural as he was heading into a c-section and wouldn't be available. I told him no. I was committed. Crazy? Maybe. This last hour or so was certainly the worst of the whole experience as the contractions were killing my back. Thankfully, the nurse was helpful and Nick was a champ and helped get me into a position during contractions that seemed to help move the baby down and make me a little more comfortable. Finally I was fully dilated and this baby was on his way out! I've always heard of the 'urge to push', but hadn't fully understood it until now. It was an amazing, uncontrollable, whole body 'urge' (which seems much too small a word to use), that really pushed the baby out all on it's own. The nurse was telling me, "don't you dare push until a doctor is here." Uh, yeah right. Thankfully, he walked in right then. One push, the baby moved down. The doctor quickly did an episiotomy, and then a second push and his head was out, body followed. He was suctioned, Nick cut the cord, and he was placed on my chest. Whew! Relief! The doctor finished up with me, and the nurses with the baby and then Nick and I were given some time alone with our baby boy. We decided on a name - Warren after Nick's dad and Nick's grandpa, and Everett because it just felt right. It was very nice to be able to move around and take myself to the bathroom and such pretty soon after delivery. An hour and a half after giving birth, I was moved down to my room and Nick and the baby went to the nursery. The girls and grandpa met us at my room and they got to meet their brother. They are both very sweet with him (although Maren has yet to learn about being 'gentle' around the baby).
Would I do it again without an epidural? Probably. Although that is not what I said to Nick in the thick of things (I think I said something like, "remind me to get an epidural next time"). Overall, it was certainly a new experience for all of us, and Everett is here and we are all happy (although very tired...). I am feeling well. I am very grateful to have Nick home with me this week as I am not quite ready to take on all three at once. Yeah for new babies!